What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence, without a basic type and fixed result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Of course, always with respect for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is frequently a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is very relaxed, splendidly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are entirely present. Do not consider yesterday or tomorrow. Don't browse or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or getting the massage. An extremely conscious touch from the heart. Get likewise extremely knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Everything takes place in the moment, completely awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the scenario. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never understand how it will turn out. It is not the strategy or the preferred series of massaging that is very important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love knows what to do, enjoy always has a suitable response. And so the massage will be precisely that what is required. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. Everything fits into a larger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness. A "failed" massage can be the initial step in an excellent advancement.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (except when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise required (check out the post on guarding limits. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a correct consumption, and a decent preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders beforehand: about mental boundaries, and also take care for clearness about physical limits. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise entirely ok (however hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received many tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow freely
Triggering and releasing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with regard for (shared) limits. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an important role again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a very useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows various techniques to utilize on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: bring back the natural (happy) state of being.
Generally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to become more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what happens frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely permitted! A tantra massage is usually great, often scrumptious. We, for that reason, invite you to totally enjoy getting ánd giving a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have certain practices and strategies in common. There is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (focused on recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, but of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are really super energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are very exhausted), you are really alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it various. Tantra massage is certainly not a therapy! It's a sort of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing results, however that is not an end in itself.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the short article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Supply good conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, do not press or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
Need totally free.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not try to impose anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. However, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the news entire body. Being aroused is typical and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are very important! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Delighting in the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and provide integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy build and flood your entire body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (but you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner and even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. It is possible that blockages, emotional injuries concern the surface area. There might be an emotional release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like recovery, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic kind, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological wellness (of both).